Monday, June 30, 2008
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So let me tell you a story. Two Saturday's ago it was my birthday. A few of my friends and I were going to have a couple of drink, by couple I mean stay up till five AM drinking. So the night before I invited a friend of mine that I have known of well over 5 years. We were very good friends at one point and some drama insued and things were a little less than friendly for a while, but things seemed on the mend and what not.
Well on Saturday, she didn't show up, I sent a text message asking if she was coming with no response. Didn't hear from her all week, thought it was kind of odd. So I ran into her the next Friday, I was a little drunk, a friend was in town and we were doing shots. Bad idea, but....
So she comes up and tells me she is sorry she missed my birthday but that she and her boyfriend had a fight about me the night before and that he doesn't want her to be friends with me any longer. I asked if she was serious, she said yes. She said she was sorry but we can't be friends. I looked at her and told her if that is how it is, I don't need a friend like that.
So in the end I am totally blown away by the complete stupidity of the entire thing. Her boyfriend and I have no history so why he is so intimidated or insecure of me I have no idea. But why would two people in a relationship have a fight over me? I am not trying to date his girl friend. Why would he give her the him or me routine? That is just weird!!! And finally the part that upset me, she and I have been friends for a very long time, when we were fighting, she is the one that wanted to be friends again, but I guess she bought into his immaturity and told me we can't be friends. I am not sure what it accomplished...
Now, I don't know what is going on, on their side of things, but from my point of view, this is just completely stupid.
Sucks that five plus years of friendship ends like this, but that is too much drama for me and way to messed up.
People are freakin crazy!!!!Labels: Personal
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1 Comments:
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You are so right! That is absolutely stupid. Good friends should be treated as such and boyfriends like that should be kicked aside as quickly as possible.
At the very least, it's a shame she couldn't let you know sooner that she couldn't make it. Pity.
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